Wednesday, 7 December 2011

Signs Of Trustworthiness In A Mate

Don't worry if you have some anxiety when you start entering into a serious relationship. It's human! We've all been lied to at least once, and those heels who use us and leave us are the ones making it bad for the rest of us. When you're wondering whether you and your online dating partner are developing a trusting relationship, here are five signs of reassurance:

  1. They don't have a dysfunctional history of relationships - This is a big one that many people miss. A floozie with twenty disaster stories about past relationships is likely going to make you #21.

  2. They have integrity with everyone else - From the busboy to the boss to their mother to the police, they lead an honest life.

  3. They're accessible - Every time you call, they answer. Every time you want to see them, it's "come right over".

  4. They spend their free time with you - Obviously, the more time they spend with you, the less time they spend looking for anybody else.

  5. They've let you meet their friends - This is the most promising sign of all. When you've been proudly introduced to everyone, it means they intend to make you a permanent fixture.

5 comments:

  1. That is very interesting.
    Thanks for the tips or sign you shared it is very useful.

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  2. Pure good advices, that's always good to read and remember, thank you!

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  3. The relationship with the mother is very important because it's a sign of what he may treat you like in the future.

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  4. It's amazing how many people do not take this advice. These are both dating tips for men and women.

    A lot of people rush their way into a relationship because that other person gives them an emotional rush. This is why you have women going for bad boys and guys going for sexy bad girls-- and ending up in horrible relationships. Emotions play a more powerful role in our decision making than most people would like to admit.

    Thanks Jodie!

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  5. I agree with point 5 most - introducing you to their friends (EITHER FEMALE OR MALE) is a very good indication they are serious about you. Similar if they introduce you to their family/parents...

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