Thursday, 26 February 2009

Now How to Avoid Being "Just Friends"?

There's a lot to love in this list of six signs you’ve fallen into the “friend zone”, but while we're at it, why not try to find the point where we made the mistake to end up here, and then see what we could do differently? Follow along with the list, guys:

    When your date mentions that she is seeing someone else: your mistake was in not making it clear that you thought of the two of you as being "serious"! In any case, when it gets this far, move to the dump stage. Try to end it gracefully.

  1. Your date brings up sex, when you havn't had sex yet: When this happens, you have about five seconds to wiggle out of your clothes and jump her bones. This is the very last subtle hint that she's ready for sex right now, and if you don't make it happen right now, you're dead from the waist down in her book.
  2. She lets you see her sweaty/dirty, etc.: That's it, relationship's over. You didn't make your move soon enough.
  3. Saying "gee, thanks": She's not impressed! She's telling you to sweep her off her feet and rock her world, and you're being her timid little polite bellhop. You've got five seconds to Hulk out, or get lost.
  4. The "buddy" or "brother" title: Your bad. If you act like a buddy or a brother to a woman, she will think of you that way! You should have already made it clear that you're not looking for a sister.
  5. She tells you she's not interested: Well, then, the time has come to move on. At least you didn't mess up the above five items so badly that she couldn't even tell that that's what you're looking for. Try to end it gracefully.

    Jodie Brittain

6 comments:

  1. The best way to avoid being just friends is to tell the boy/girl concerned that you are interested in more. Just plain honest, straight talk. No big deal !!
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  2. It is important to tell the people we Love that we do love them, even though we think they already know. We still need to say it. Love is the most important thing in life.Confidence is the essence of it, at least for me it is. I am learning that the more confident I become, the more inclined I am to continue to want to look my best, to be my best and strive for more. I understand that beauty is individual and does not equate to perfection but rather a trait in which we should all find within ourselves. With regards to make up and the duties in ensuring my hair is presented in an alluring manner, well every one needs a down day or two and yes there are moments when Master appreciates me in all my naturalness.
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  3. If you have feelings to someone, then you should let that person know. It might be possible that the person feels the same way towards you, then that will be a great news. If the feeling is not mutual then you need to respect that person's decision and move on.
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  4. You have some feeling to someone, just show it to him/her. This will help you to be the winner of his/her heart. That's it.
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  5. Yes, these are the best way to avoid being just friends. And be the sweet lover.
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  6. Express your love in action as well as in words
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